Jesus is complicated. He’s the man who said turn the other cheek — and the man who said he came not to bring peace, but a sword. The man who dined with outcasts and sinners — and the man who promised to set a daughter against her mother. Two thousand years of readers have found both men in the same book, and built entire lives, entire churches, around the parts they chose to hear.

Westboro Baptist Church built its whole identity on winning that argument — insisting theirs was the real Jesus, the hard one, not some softened-up, sanded-down savior. Megan Phelps-Roper grew up trained for that fight, and when she left the church, she assumed she was leaving the fight behind — and Jesus, too.

But recently, she found herself yanked back into the fray again.

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